words or weapons?

i was talking to a friend and we alked about how simply a few words can make us or break us. We know how to hurt eachother and we use it as a weapon.

when we get hurt...
when we hurt each other.
when we gossip about each other.
when we don't do the work of making peace with one another.

people get hurt. we'll never heal until we can identify who did what when. only then can we begin the process of being set free.