making a list and checking it twice

Making a list of what you want.

The list may show what you want, but it probably won't show what you need. You can't solve matters of the heart with strategies from your head. God is the same way. He sees what we want and then provides us with what we need. When we make lists of qualities we want in a boyfriend/girlfriend we are telling God what we think is best for us, and our list become demands to God. Instead lets make Must-not-have lists.

To establish a healthy long-tern relationship are love, joy. peace, patience,kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self control.

However, love isn't real until it comes from the source, God.